When these two theme collide conflict really comes to a head with dynamic results. The tensions created by the character’s interactions with their families that create the tension that drives the story forward and the theme is often very close intertwined with the theme of class divisions. It is uncertain however if the breakup was due to the external pressure exerted by Brenda’s parents or if Brenda was actually condescending towards Neil.įamily dynamics are also a central theme in the story. The class distinction between Neil and Brenda would eventually cause them to end their relationship. This distinction in class is made painfully clear by Uncle Leo who congratulates Neil during Ron’s wedding for being “lucky to marry up” insinuating that he was moving up in the world because of sticking to the Patimkins. This is clear indication of the obvious that Patimkins-unlike Neil’s family-have risen in class as they have thusly been able to afford to move out of the old Jewish quarter and they, most especially Brenda’s father makes sure that he is reminded of that distinction. The Patimkin family hails form Newark, New Jersey, from the same poor neighborhood where Neil and his family presently live in. Neil and Brenda’s relationship is ultimately colored by their differences in socio-economic standing. The letter moves her to break off her relationship with Neil as Brenda values her loyalty to her family over her relationship with her boyfriend. Later on however Brenda’s parents discover the diaphragm and write her a strongly worded letter to express their dismay at her life choices. Even their quarrels as lovers have undercurrents of jockeying for leverage: when Neil proposes that Brenda get a diaphragm, she is initially appalled but she eventually agrees, an act that Neil once more takes as a “win” for him. Having been able to win Brenda’s affections and finally bed her is to him a rise up the socio-economic ladder. Sex, at least for Neil, is more than just a pleasurable activity: it is also a means of brokering power, so much so that he actually uses the metaphor of “winning” when describing his first sexual tryst with Brenda. Neil narrates the relationship from his point of view emphasizing the class disparity between them, another major theme. Their relationship frames the intricately interconnected web of love, sex, and how it affects how they relate to one another and their respective families. We are thankful for their contributions and encourage you to make your own.Ĭentral to the novella is the progress of the relationship of Neil and Brenda, from their initial meet-up to their parting. These notes were contributed by members of the GradeSaver community.

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